Even though Ed's a guy, he's surrounded by women in this industry.
As anyone who's worked in the gleaming towers of Hearst or Condé knows, women make up a large percentage of the magazine workforce. And as any female who's ever worked in media knows, it's all too easy to find yourself playing one of two stereotypical roles: the office bitch or the office pushover. And there's no in between, according to a NYT article by corporate coach Peggy Claus. Even though last year was a landmark for women — coming the closest they've ever been to having a female president — the state of women in the workplace has not made much progress.
Claus cites a study from Carnegie Mellon and Harvard which says that women who are perceived as pushy are less likely to be hired. In the Times piece, she elaborated on the two roles women are allowed in the office:
Women must still deal with a well-entrenched double standard when it comes to gender-acceptable behavior. Because of that, they often fall victim to self-defeating actions that can undercut their careers. They may assume a strident command-and-control approach or else turn passive — by clamming up, being indirect, failing to ask for what they want or need, and refusing to delegate junior-level tasks and responsibilities.
Even though women now make up the majority of the workforce, Claus writes that the women she worked with "across various industries, job levels and generations" were worried about being labeled a "bitch," to a degree she hadn't seen since the 90s, perhaps as a result of the recession where pressure to keep your job is at an all-time high.
Her advice for beating the double standard? Connecting "through a compelling combination of warmth and strength." She also recommends "being conversational, conveying a message in a specific and succinct way, and using humor, direct eye contact and a firm voice."
What do you think, Edsters? Have you had any recent anecdotes that made you feel like it's harder for a woman to be in a position of power?
completely! since graduating, every job I've taken has been in an increasingly junior position. I was lucky to be hired in a relatively high position immediately after graduation, but was pushed out by a change of management. Since then, no one wants to hire a confident and experienced writer in her early 20s, but my male counterparts keep going up, up, up with their roles, responsibilities, and most of all: respect. I'm basically doing the work of a glorified intern now.
ReplyDeleteI am dumbfounded. Someone else just got the promotion we all thought was mine. I should have been the one promoted. I don’t know if I should quit or stay, but I do know I am not happy about what has happened. Is hard work worth anything anymore?
ReplyDeletebulk sms from pc to mobile
disk data recovery
Since inception as a computer repair shop we have had the same management that has helped grow the company from a single person operation to a team of technical consultants (Computer Repair Technicians) that is also a laptop repair company.
ReplyDeletecomputer repair
budget hotel malaysia
The hospital management software is one which will give you more profit in short time. The hospital management software in fact can be shared by multiple users too.
ReplyDeleteElectronic Checknyc allergist
helps you by computerizing all your operations including staffing requirements, managing of daily tasks and assignments, and what not? It keeps you a step ahead always.
ReplyDeleteINTERIOR DECORATORS MIAMIchanel J12 replica watches
With the help of it you can easily measure and visualize your entire cleaning activities. It enhances you bring down the costs and improve the quality of services and products in your institute.
ReplyDeletebest buy promo codeleather beds
Another advantage of it is that you don't have to wait for your managers' report to know of the present administration of your organization. Same is the case with managers too
ReplyDeletehotel in killarneyVietnam cycling tours
Thing Thing Arenawebsite hosting companyThe majority of workers in the industry are just like the rest of us, with jobs they enjoy and better than average salaries.
ReplyDeleteTo put your career on an upward trajectory, you need to learn how to make the most of each situation. This includes knowing what to do when you get passed over for a promotion.
ReplyDeleteapartment hotels wellington
lohn
Being at the forefront of revolutionary new technology really is electrifying. Your actions are instrumental in shaping the next few decades.
ReplyDeleteweb based crmcelebrity gossip
Please understand this most important point: It's essential to obtain proper 24x7 round-the-clock support from professional instructors.
ReplyDeletePilatesvegetables for dogs
I am aware that most people feel Adwords costs too much and delivers little results, this is completely untrue.
ReplyDeleteMustang Survival rescue suit2x5 bidi
After all most new Adwords customers have no idea how effective the advertising will be. Do not start off with a bang; your pocket will feel it.
ReplyDeletebuy silver roundsl arjinin sitrulin
Most manufacturer warranties stop after three to four years so what are you going to do to protect yourself in case of a breakdown?
ReplyDeleteExtended Warranty
scm training
We provide all different types of cleaning equipment to ensure that you have everything you need to provide a clean, safe, healthy and sustainable environment. Whether you need an automatic scrubber, commercial vacuum, carpet extractor, wet/dry vacuum, air mover, floor machine, floor burnisher we can provide you with every necessary tool.
ReplyDeleteÜbersetzungsbüro Tschechisch
janitor supplies louisville
Our Fulvic Ionic Minerals (Fulvic Acid) concentrated liquid minerals, electrolytes and essential aminos supplement is the cornerstone of our company and is manufactured under the strictest organic standards.
ReplyDeletebest superfoods
puky løbecykel
We build backlinks from Profiles & Forums on Do-Follow sites for your sites. We have a database of thousands of sites ready to give you a backlink.
ReplyDeleteIT Support services
where to buy backlinks
You could even find a new favorite with all of the newest steroids to pick from. We scout out the best anabolic steroids for you to choose and we are proud to allow you to use them for free.
ReplyDeletePassages Malibu Health
Buy Steroids Online
One popular way to earn money from home is to write. There are many websites out there that will take writers that are just beginning to writers who are experts. The sites that take the beginner writers will not usually pay as much as the sites that hire the expert writers. Which ever you are, writing is a great way to earn money from home.
ReplyDeletewebsite designing software
Earn Money From Home
Layering is not only for the upper part of your body. Layer the bottom half with tights and leggings worn under a skirt with knee-high boots and over the knee socks peeping out of the boots for a warm, fashionable look.
ReplyDeleteMedical Planning
Promotional Codes
Sacramento Movers is fully Insured and Licensed. Our professional movers moving teams will exceed all your expectations and provide you with piece of mind at the best prices.
ReplyDeleteMovers Sacramento CA
flip flops
The Mobile Home Factory Inc. is one of Californias' trusted mobile home dealers that offers prospective homeowners a select choice of new, manufactured homes made under a controlled environment in a factory. With hundreds of models and floor plans to choose from, you can be sure that you will find a home that is exactly what you have been looking for!
ReplyDeleteMercado de Divisas
mobile home sale
An essential and advanced security assessments software for auditing weaknesses, threats and database security vulnerabilities.
ReplyDeleteForum Link Building
it security
Our founding principle is “proven products and experienced technicians bring about excellent results”. Our people are all employees (not subcontractors) and are the most experienced in the industry. We use only premium resurfacing materials, primarily “Sundek” products, to assure many years of top performance.
ReplyDeletedecorative concrete southlake
growth hormone supplements
In today’s fast paced world, Mississauga Condos provide an ideal living arrangement. There are few people with enough time to clean a two story house and no one wants to spend their days off mowing the lawn or shoveling their driveway or deck. Condominiums are quickly becoming the most popular property choice because of their amenities and convenience.
ReplyDeletedigital camera
Mississauga Condos
There many ways your can make money today just from the comfort of your couch via the Internet. The Internet is not only a place where you go to catch up with your buddies but also an avenue where you can make money today. You can make money today by engaging in these activities via Interne
ReplyDeleteMake Money Today
Brazilian blowout sydney
We carry renowned brand names like Stainmaster® and Karastan® and superior-quality Flooring America signature brands. Style, performance and value are what you can expect from Dobson’s.
ReplyDeletecarpet garland
dentists san diego
It would probably not create a positive impression if someone you just met find out that you are doing a background check on them. But in the privacy of your home you can satisfy your curiosity and attain a certain peace of mind by using a people search.
ReplyDeleteclases particulares de inglés en Bogoté
searching for lost loved ones
Using the very best method of producing the silver planchets (blanks) affords us the ability to have very little waste to recycle and give the best pricing possible. Having multiple facilities allows us to specialize in exacting the needs of our customers.
ReplyDeletesilver rounds
Bulk SMS UK
Considering buying a new TV? Or a new IPod has caught your fancy? Or maybe you just really want to own a Blu-ray gadget that everyone is talking about these days. You can get out of the thinking zone and actually get the gadgets you desire for, at Currys.
ReplyDeleteattorney website samples
Currys Promotional Code
At AAD Design we work with you to design your custom home or renovation to ensure it meets your budget and most importantly your needs.
ReplyDeletedesigner homes brisbane
custom mousepad
There many ways your can make money today just from the comfort of your couch via the Internet. The Internet is not only a place where you go to catch up with your buddies but also an avenue where you can make money today. You can make money today by engaging in these activities via Internechaise loungecheap car tyres
ReplyDeleteOne of the most frequently asked questions when it comes to buying a gourmet or specialty coffee is that people ask is if gourmet coffee is just a marketing plot of the companies selling away their old, stale beans in expensive packaging labelled gourmet coffee in bold letters.
ReplyDeleteswiss holding companyhotels in edinburgh
Considering buying a new TV? Or a new IPod has caught your fancy? Or maybe you just really want to own a Blu-ray gadget that everyone is talking about these days. You can get out of the thinking zone and actually get the gadgets you desire for, at Currys.dublin hotelsmusica de salsa
ReplyDeleteThe hospital management software is one which will give you more profit in short time. The hospital management software in fact can be shared by multiple users too.
ReplyDeleteElectronic Checknyc allergistNachhilfe Deutsch MuenchenForumLinkBuilding.com scam
May be know http://www.maybeknow.com
ReplyDeleteWatch live football online http://www.lfotv.com
Earlier this week President Zardari accused Chief Justice Iftikhar Chaudhry of failing to investigate the murder of his wife, former Prime Minister Benazir Bhutto.
ReplyDeleteHe was addressing party supporters on the anniversary of Ms Bhutto's killing.
He pointed to a hearing the Supreme Court opened over the leaked memo as proof the court has been inconsistent.
email leadstecno macchine utensili
Saturn AlternatorWhat to do in Lexington
ReplyDeleteAs my eyes search the skies from the edge of the shoreYou are here in my arms for a moment or moreThen a tear rushes down to the sand and the seaAnd it cries "Come to me, come to me."
The third survivor has been named as Manrico Gianpetroni, an Italian national and a senior member of the crew. He has serious leg injuries.
ReplyDeleteHe was placed on a stretcher and winched up to a rescue helicopter, to be taken to hospital on the mainland.
Two French passengers and a Peruvian crew member died, and another 30 people were injured, two seriously.
1996 Honda Odyssey AC Compressorhome floor plan
Oscilloscopes commonly provide a means for the graticule to be side-illuminated, which improves its visibility when used in a darkened room or when shaded by a camera hooditunes gift card onlinesolar lights
ReplyDeleteColor tubes use three different phosphors which emit red, green, and blue light respectively. They are packed together in stripes (as in aperture grille designs) or clusters called "triads" (as in shadow mask CRTs).traje de novioholidays in barbados
ReplyDeleteThe relay design also enables degaussing on user demand through the unit's front panel controls, without switching the unit off and on again. (The relay can often be heard clicking off at the end of the degaussing cycle a few seconds after the monitor is turned on, and on and off during a manually initiated degaussing cycle.)amazing festivalsmobile bagno
ReplyDelete